BE HAPPY ALWAYS NO MATTER WHAT;

Lord, when I learn that someone is hurting,
Help me know what to do and to say;
Speak to my heart and give me compassion,
Let Your great love flow through me today. —K. De Haan

Happiness is a state of mind. We can be happy regardless the situation we are in; Paul said in Philippians 4:4 rejoice in the Lord always: again I say, rejoice. We can control our state of mind by focusing upon happy things. Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of that mirth is heaviness. Let us learn contentment if we desire to be happy.

Happiness is satisfied with “clean fun.” It is interesting that the word “fun” is not in the Bible. We do find, however, that God gives us richly all things to enjoy (1 Timothy 6:17). In that regard, God’s gifts are pure and unadulterated. James 1:17 states, every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning.

Do you know that Worry and fear are unwelcome twins? The greatest by-product of these two is an absence of joy. When we’re constantly fearful, we worry, and when we’re worried, we miss the positives in life. We always waste energy and opportunities by worrying about things that never happen; as the result Happiness slides by unnoticed.

The problem of being Ingratitude, this is more seen to those who are critical of everyone and everything? Nothing pleases them and it’s exhausting to try to have a relationship with them. People who are ungrateful rarely experience happiness. They’re too busy complaining and pointing out problems in others to appreciate what they have.

Mm what about Selfishness; A me-centered person has a hard time grasping happiness. Those who are self-centered have tunnel vision. They’re always working hard to make sure they receive the respect, attention, and material possessions they think they deserve. The selfish rarely enjoy the pleasures of daily life.

Jealousy; Often we’re so busy looking at what others have that we fail to notice our blessings. You can waste a lot of time wishing for things that really won’t make you happy once you get them. Often we magnify and idolize the true picture of someone else’s life.

God wants us to walk humbly; it’s hard for those who are proud to understand humility, but it’s a quality Jesus stressed. He condemned those who elevated themselves: God commands in the Old Testament, “He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you read Micah 6:8

We need to live a God-controlled life—Putting God at the center of your life goes hand in hand with humility. Seeking God in decision-making and all life activities leads to happiness because this puts us in line with His will for our lives. It takes effort to pursue a righteous life. It’s our nature to put “self” first, so make the decision each day to focus spiritually and put God in the center of your activities and decisions (Luke 9:23).  “Be happy, young man, while you are young, and let your heart give you joy in the days of your youth” (Ecclesiastes 11:9a).

Be satisfied, some people are never content with their current circumstances. They always want more or better. The apostle Paul said, “But godliness with contentment is great gain” (1 Timothy 6:6). Learning to recognize the blessings you already have is key to happiness. Those blessings may or may not be material possessions or good looks. Take some time to consider your blessings. “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18).

See positives Most of us need an attitude adjustment to experience happiness. Happiness is a choice rather than a result of circumstances and surroundings. Being happy doesn’t mean everything has to go your way. We’re going to have problems in life, but ultimately we have victory in Christ. “While you are in the world, you will have to suffer. But cheer up! I have defeated the world” (John 16:33b).

So what should we do now Even if we are defeated?

·        TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR TIME. 

·        PRACTICE BEING HAPPY

·        Avoid mixing happiness with pleasure