Sam Bristow once wrote
“Why Do You Judge Me? You have not walked in my shoes, You have not been down
my road, You have not cried my tears, You have not carried my load, Why do you
judge me? Wayne Dyer wrote, "When you judge another, you do not define
them, you define yourself".
The late Mother Teresa once said that “If you judge people, you have no time to love
them.”
Jesus through Matthew 7:2 says, For in the same way you judge
others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured
to you. John 7:24 says, “Stop judging by mere appearances, but instead judge
correctly.” Therefore If you cannot
judge correctly then don't judge at all.
Matthew 7:3-5 “Why do you see the speck that is in your
brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? 4 Or how can
you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is
the log in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own
eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s
eye.”
The main message of Jesus here is that we should not to judge
others if we are doing so by blinding ourself in other words not to be a hypocrite
when you judge. To be a hypocrite is the same like being blind, ignorant, hypocritical,
self-righteous judging that overlooks one’s own faults, failures and sins and
only sees faults, failures and sins in other people. Because of this behavior
we find ourselves being critical people by nature. We tend to think that we see
things rightly and that others are wrong. We tend to think that our reasonings
and our perspectives are at least just a little better than the people we
disagree with. We seem to be quick to find fault and condemn people.
According to Jesus the right judgement is first take the
plank out of your eye and then you can judge others rightly.
Therefore don’t go around with a self-righteous attitude that
points out where others have failed while neglecting to first evaluate your own
life. Don’t be a hypocrite by pretending to have it all together but call other
people on the carpet for their sins and shortcomings. First, repent of your own
sin, and then you can lovingly speak truth into another person’s life. You must
do this because God is going to judge you, and if you have not been cleansed of
your own sin, your judgmental attitude toward others will be one of the things
that condemn you on that final day.
well when need to practice to be honest mmm but is hard God help us
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