Are you satisfied
with your Life?
Year 2012 has
been a challenging year to me personally and my family. I started it nursing
many body ailments, which include the threat of loosing eyesight, excruciating
lower back and abdominal pain etc. Then my mother went to be with the Lord and
for the first time I saw myself as an orphan. The missional work I have
been involved in both in Tanzania and here in the US seemed to be grinding to a
halt due to my ill health and other challenges.
This is my
first time in more than fifty years that I had plenty of time to think, read
(when pain was not a hindrance), pray and examine many issues. One of the
issues I thought about deeply and at length was how satisfied with life the
people I interacted with (in Tanzania most of 2011 and in USA in 2012) were.
I asked the
following question to a number of people I interacted with in the last two
years: Are you satisfied with your life?
I found out
that many people are not satisfied, especially those who seem to be well off,
like me:
- There are married people who aren’t satisfied with being married.
- There are single people who aren’t satisfied with being single.
- There are people who are not satisfied with their children
- There are people who are not satisfied with their jobs
- There are people who are not satisfied with their income
- There are people who are not satisfied with their health
- There are people who are not satisfied with their physical appearance.
Even
millionaires do not seem very satisfied these days. A number of them have so
much security to guard against kidnapping or attack that they become prisoners
in their own homes, always afraid, always fearful of some disaster striking
them.
What
an awful way to live!
Let me ask you a similar
question: Are you satisfied with your life?
Whether you are living in a
“developed’ or “developing” world, the global nature of the modern world
exposes all of us, for example, to following crises:
1.
The crisis of purpose - Physical
breakdowns, loss of parents, the surrender of youthful dreams and forced
retirements are making Boomers (in U.S a baby boomer is a person who was
born during the demographic post – World War 11 boom between the
years 1946 and 1964). “What else is there?”
2.
The crisis of disillusionment
- The ideals of the 1960s in U.S. and Africa (big hopes subsequent to
attaining independence) seem to be unrealized as the world goes from crisis to
crisis. Many people are asking, “Is changing the world even possible or has
cynicism won the day?”
3.
The crisis of priorities -
Consumer culture claims you can have it all, but there are too many choices,
too much debt and too little time. “Can anyone really have it all?”
4. The crisis of relationships – “Should
anyone say forever?” For those with children, the answer seems to be no. Some
people have not spoken with their children for years.
5. The crisis of loneliness – Modern people
value their freedom and autonomy, but they still seek connection, conversation
and community. “Where do you find meaningful relationships in a superficial
world?”
6. The crisis of security - Economic
uncertainty has led to spiritual anxiety. The goal of a comfortable retirement
is becoming more elusive. “What price happiness?”
7. The crisis education – Many people see
education as a passport out of poverty for that reason they seek with all their
might- they are not dissatisfied with education opportunities for themselves
and or their children.
8. The crisis of media – In a globalized
world, many people is gripped with the fear of the influence of
media on their children.
9. The crisis
of spirituality - Organized religion has given way to a
nebulous spirituality. Where do you find something rock solid for your life in
a world that is falling apart?”
Does
the above sound familiar?
Here are quotes from different
important people (who identify with Christianity) regarding satisfaction in
life:
George Reeves (a star in one of the
most popular programs on television programs in USA in the 1950s) said: “fame
and fortune don’t ultimately satisfy”.
Harvard Professor Clayton Christensen
(Harvard Business School professor) reminds us: “professional
success and personal happiness are two very different things”.
Malcolm Muggeridge (was an
English journalist, author, media personality, and satirist. During World War
II, he was a soldier and a spy) said: “you cannot rationalize your
way out of meaninglessness.”
Oprah Winfrey said: “things”
don’t ultimately satisfy.
Tim Tebow (the quarter back of Denver
Broncos the winners of 2012 American NFL Super ball
championship) said: “you cannot rely on sports victories to bring you
contentment.”
Whether you live in a “developed” or
“developing” world, the good news is that we can get
satisfaction. The gospel (John 6:1-21) shows us the way. A large crowd of
people had followed Jesus into the wilderness where he proceeded to teach them
about the kingdom of God. Time seemed to stand still when these folks were in
the presence of Jesus…so that all of a sudden it was late afternoon, every
person in the crowd was hungry and the nearest restaurant was miles away.
In
this instance, like it is always when it comes to feeding a large hungry crowd
where there is not enough food, feeding the crowd presented a problem. Thanks
to the generosity of a boy, the disciples were able to come up with five barley
loaves and two fish, by no means enough to satisfy the hunger of such a large
crowd. Jesus took the little they gave him, blessed it with his presence, and
ordered it distributed to the crowd. The bible says that the people “ate as
much as they wanted” and “were satisfied.”
This miracle is not about Jesus becoming a bread king, as
John’s Gospel makes clear. For soon after the miracle, the people approach
Jesus and say, “Sir, give us this bread always.” And Jesus, knowing full well
they had gotten the meaning of the miracle all wrong, says to them, “I am the
bread of life. Whoever comes to me will never be hungry, and whoever believes
in me will never be thirsty.”
Jesus is here saying that he wants to satisfy our deepest
need–satisfy us in a way that nothing else in the world can do.
The truth is that spiritual meaning
is found in Jesus. There is only one person who can satisfy the deepest desires
of your heart and that is Jesus. Whatever the hunger in your heart, Jesus is
your ultimate source of satisfaction.
As we begin 2013, let us appropriate
what the bible tells us, “Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed
is the man who takes refuge in him.” (Psalm 34:8).
We
also must remain in JESUS, our Lord and Friend who promised, “If you
remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing ……..If you
remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be
done for you. This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing
yourselves to be my disciples. (John 15:5-8)
As Christians
we get satisfaction with life if we remain in Jesus and be faithful to the
Mission as His DISCIPLE.
HAVE A BLESSED
NEW YEAR!
Yours in Christ,
By Rev.Aba Mpesha
Arbor, MI 48108-1539, USA,
Email:abampesha1@gmail.com, December 31, 2012)
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