DON’T HATE IF YOU WANT TO FORGET SOMETHING

It is human nature at the end of the road of our friendship or relationship we  either focus on what separated us or held us together. In other words when someone walks out of our life, we need to take it easy let  it go. There’s no use in wasting our time on people that leave us. What you make of our self and our future is no longer tied to them. Yeah, we may miss them, but remember that we weren’t the first one to give up. 

What I can advise you now is take a step back. Look at yourself. You are human. You are so beautiful. And you can be anything. You can be everything. Do not hate because someone broke your heart. Do not concern yourself with things you cannot control. Cry when you need to, then let go when it’s time. Don’t hang on to painful memories just because you’re afraid to forget. Let go of things that are in the past. Forget things that aren’t worth remembering. Stop taking things for granted. Stop taking life for granted. Live for something. Live for yourself

Letting go doesn’t mean giving up. It means accepting things that weren’t meant to be. There’s a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything, but it’s not giving up. You got to do what’s right for you even if it hurts. I’ve come to realize in the end, everyone turns out to be the person they swore they’d never become.

In order to move on you need to let certain things behind you. Put your thoughts, ideas, and energy towards what you are going to do not what happened and all of the injustices you went through.

You can actually take control of your thoughts and move on don’t let the past determine your present or your future. In bible we learn that forgive those who have hurt you and you will be able to achieve what God has for your life. If you don’t do this your mind will be stuck in the mud of the past and you will find yourself going around in circles. Let it go and you will begin to experience God’s purpose come to fruition in your life.

Life is in constant movement. There will always be changes. Our 

ability to let go and move on, will open us up to make new memories and experience new things. We can take the good and the lessons we have learned from the past to move us forward.

2 Corinthians 5:17, "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new."

When you look inside, you hate yourself, you could kick yourself over and over for your past failures and choices. You have come to Jesus and repented, but you haven't really accepted the truth about what Jesus has done for you yet. You still feel ashamed and guilty over your past and you keep holding it against yourself. 

Allow  God heal you instead of  holding something against yourself, you are blocking the Holy Spirit's power from entering and healing that area of your mind and life! You need to open up your heart, and allow the light of Christ to shine into the darkness of your soul.

Therefore the word of God says that we should be thankful. God is giving us a command: To be thankful. A thankful heart will change the way we see everything around us. A thankful heart will make us much happier each and every day. Choose the half full perspective. Choose to think of all the good that has come out of a circumstance.