“POSITIVE ATTITUDES OR NEGATIVE ATTITUDES”
Bible remands us that, a
positive mind anticipates happiness, joy, health and a successful outcome of
every situation and action. We all want a happy life, and we
all know that having a positive attitude feels better than a
negative one. The problem we still sometimes see the world through a negative
perspective, focusing on the bad and ignoring the good:
It is true that being
positive man depends on your choice of series of things around you, as Michael
said. “Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every
situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how
people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The
bottom line: It’s your choice how you live your life.”
The philosophy behind this
theory is that;
· Each time something bad
happens, choose to learn from it.
· Every time someone comes to us
complaining, choose to accept their complaining
We need to understand that
Positivity is something that comes from the inside, and it is up to you and me to
decide the level of influence that outside factors will have on our own
attitude.
We cannot run from the
truth that, life throws lots of negativity at us and it can sometimes get to
the point where we focus more on self defense which is full of negative
attitudes. However, if you create a negative state of mind by reacting in a
less than positive manner thus no matter how justified that reaction may be hence
you will still have created that negative state of mind.
In mathematics languages saying
yes to life has an effect that is more than cumulative. Each yes pushes
you further up the exponential curve of positive change. Each yes has a
greater impact on your life than the last. This is unfortunate
because the best things in life happen when you ride you are ready to cultivate
attitudes which will lead you to positive change all the way to the top.
People who look for the
good end up feeling good because they focus on the good things in their
life. A Positive Operating System makes every aspect of your life
better. In fact, there is no limit to how good your life can become when
a Positive Operating System controls your mind.
Positive thinking and
positive changes should start from you and you are the only one to come up with
all these changes;
·
Focus on your own
behaviors.
· Decide whether you're
being positive or negative in the majority of situations.
· If negative energy
appears to be your default state, work hard to create a more positive outlook
in yourself.
· Change your own behavior
in order to start attracting more positive people to your life.
· Remind yourself of the
good in you. We all have positive attributes and it’s up to you to remind
yourself of them every day
· Start repelling the
negative and angry people around you
The Bible says that complaining is a sin; it
also states that it can lead to further disobedience. Along with complaining
comes pouting. If you complain too much or focus on all the negative things,
you can lose sight of all the good things God does in your life. This can lead
to an attitude where you lose faith and cause others to lose faith, too.
Psalm 106:25 - They grumbled
in their tents and did not obey the LORD
If you are negative you
will always spend your time complaining, taking your eyes off of God, or you
can find a way to make things better. You can remember all the other things God
has provided. Not only will you be happier, but you will be a positive
Christian example to everyone around you.
Ephesians 4:29 - Do not
let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for
building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who
listen
1 Chronicles 16:11 Seek the LORD
and his strength; seek his presence continually!
Exodus 15:2 The LORD is
my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation; this is my God, and I
will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him.
Philippians 4:13 I can do all
things through him who strengthens me.
Psalm 18:32-34 the God who equipped me with strength and made
my way blameless. He made my feet like the feet of a deer and set me secure on
the heights. He trains my hands for war, so that my arms can bend a bow of
bronze.
1 Corinthians
10:13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God
is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with
the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to
endure it.
Psalm 119:23 Even though princes sit plotting against me, your
servant will meditate on your statutes.
Matthew
6:34
“therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for
tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Therefore as a step forward life
should be full of positive, happy and fun moments. But we are responsible
for bringing the type of people that we want to bring into our life no need of
creating worries which brings negative attitudes in our life thanks God for the
courage through bible teachings.