IS SLAPPING YOUR PARTENAL THE ONLY SOLUTION TO END YOUR ANGER?

 

One writer once wrote that “As a woman, I can shout at the top of my voice, but a slap might come involuntarily when I am emotional. As a man, you should control your emotions” but is it necessary for any individual to take a moment and slap your partner? To me other many behavior analysis’s have shown that allowing for any circumstances in which slapping is done   we must agree that is a serious problem that threatens someone  own emotional stability, as well as the stability of your romantic relationship if you are in relationship.

We know that some people love violence, and slapping to them is ok but that need to know that by doing that you put your beyond repair. Slapping is one of the ugliest things to do in life against your paternal or other party;

Let us practice that it’s never okay to slap or hit your lover, that stand will hold yourself more accountable, not make excuses for yourself, and force yourself to manage your angry feelings when they overwhelm you.

We need to know that even if your paternal cares about you but when you slap him sometimes some man cannot take it hence  the man slap a woman in response because — let’s be real — a man’s reaction wouldn’t usually be to slap. If provoked and pushed too far, the average man’s angry feelings would more likely lead him to throw a punch. We also rarely see a man slap back because we hold a double standard when it comes to this kind of violence: It’s a little bit okay when a woman slaps a man, but not at all okay if a man slaps a woman. Enough with the double standards, folks: no one should ever hit anyone else, regardless of the circumstances.

So when we have differences what should we do to control our anger?

Calm down. Do not act in the moment of anger.

 Talk when you feel better.

 If you cannot take it and you still want to hit Find something/an object as a punching Solution

 If you are a short-tempered person, walk away from the person until you are calm.

 You need to expel that negative energy that has built up and transform it by doing something positive.

Cry if you must. Some people do when they are angry. The whole point is to release the negative energy before it wells up and spills over.

Have a “right relationship.” “A right relationship is based on four building blocks: Love, trust, respect and understanding.

Above all forgiveness is what holds these building blocks together.